Happy Summer!

So sorry it has been so long since I have posted. There has been so much going on over the last several months that it’s hard for me to keep up with it all!

I guess the biggest news is that I am currently 34 weeks pregnant with a little girl (Callie Elizabeth)! Given Henry’s rough entry into the world, we were a bit hesitant to make any big announcements. This pregnancy is going well but not without some minor issues. At 18 weeks the doctors discovered that the baby has a Single Umbilical Artery (SUA). Henry also had an SUA… this is where the umbilical cord has one artery and one vein. Usually, the umbilical cord should have two arteries and one vein. Apparently, I am very rare because this does not usually happen to the same person more than once… lucky me! At 24 weeks the doctors discovered that the baby was measuring small, estimated size was in the 17th percentile. At 28 weeks, her estimated size had dropped to the 13th percentile. As a result, the doctors felt it best for me to go on bedrest at home. So, I’ve been trying my best to sit here in bed for the past 6 weeks! I have also been seeing the doctors twice a week for ultrasounds to ensure the baby is progressing well and not in any distress. At my 32 week appointment, the baby remained consistent with her weight and is in the 12th percentile. At this point, she should be just over 3lbs (babies at 33 weeks typically measure about 4.5lbs). At my 35 week appointment next week, they will measure her size again (this is only done every 3-4 weeks). My ultrasound last week identified some minor changes in blood flow and with the placenta, but at this point there is nothing significant to worry about. The doctors did decide to go ahead and give me the steroid injections to help boost the baby’s lung development. These steroids are typically given when doctors feel that a baby may be born soon, as they are the most effective several days prior to delivery. However, the steroids are not generally given after 34 weeks. Since there are no negative effects from receiving the steroids, it was agreed to go ahead and get them, just in case!

There are also a lot of updates to give about Henry! Henry started daycare the end of April after my last post. Daycare is like a double-edged sword! It has been absolutely fantastic in regards to his socialization skills, sensory integration, and gross and fine motor skills! His speech has really taken off and he “talks” constantly! He has done really well adjusting to different textures and tolerating different sensory experiences. This has been the most obvious with feeding. Prior to daycare, Henry would vomit due to the texture of foods such as mandarin oranges or peaches. Now, he gobbles them up! Eating around the other kids has also helped him to start drinking from a sippy cup (which he wouldn’t even allow to touch his mouth prior to daycare). And as long as Henry is healthy, he eats very well at daycare (with some encouragement from his teachers).

Unfortunately, Henry has picked up repeated colds and ear infections since starting daycare. He has dropped weight and is just over 21lbs. He eats very well when he is healthy, but the next ear infection is devastating for his weight. He has been unable to gain back what he has lost over the past 3 ½ months. The primary issue with the colds and ear infections are his sensitive gag, which results in vomiting almost daily. As a result, his GI nurse (Nannette) has us trying Eyrthromycin again to help empty his stomach faster. We tried this about a year ago and Henry didn’t tolerate it well. Fortunately, he has done much better with it over the past month and it does seem to be helping him keep his food down better. Henry is still taking Prevacid for his reflux and we continue to give him Periactin as an appetite stimulant (although we’re not sure how effective that really is for him). He also continues to get a daily Probiotic.

We visited with an ear, nose, and throat doctor last week and have decided to get Henry tubes for his ears to help prevent the repeated infections. Hopefully, he’ll get those sometime next month! We are also trying to set up a follow-up endoscopy with GI at the same time so they can take care of both procedures at once. Henry has not had an endoscopy since last Nov when his Eosinophilic Gastritis was first diagnosed. So, we are very interested to know how things are looking. And finally, Henry still has the hernia which has not been repaired yet. We are hoping to follow up with the surgeon sooner rather than later to see if we can get it taken care of. It will not happen at the same time he gets the ear tubes, but maybe sometime later this year or the beginning of next year.

Stewart is doing really well! He started second grade in July and is just a few weeks away from completing the first 9 weeks and tracking out! We have noticed a big improvement in his reading and his interest in reading since starting second grade. Reading seems to be an area where Stewart struggles the most. I’m not surprised that math seems to be second nature to him! Stewart also continues to be very active with soccer. He has continued to play indoor soccer on his Select Team. He also played outdoor soccer this past Spring with Will coaching. With the baby coming soon, we have decided to take a break from outdoor soccer this Fall, but Stewart will continue to play indoor soccer. Over the summer, Stewart participated in two 3 verses 3 soccer tournaments. They were very exciting (and hot!) weekends and the boys all played well!

Before going on bedrest in July, we were able to make a trip to Topsail Beach for a nice vacation! The boys really enjoyed the beach and playing in the ocean! It was nice to get away from everything! Henry has discovered the movie “Cars”, and it has somehow become a daily “watch” for us! His two favorite cars to play with are of course, Lightening McQueen and The King. No other cars will do, but anyone else is welcome to play with the other cars! Stewart lost his second tooth a couple of weeks ago and is very proud of the new gap in his mouth! Starting this weekend, we are having some modifications made to our bonus room upstairs… the room will be divided so that there will be a smaller bonus room and a new bedroom for Callie!

Although things are a bit hectic right now, it seems that things should be falling into place soon. I’ll try to update more often, especially with Callie’s pending arrival!

Let's March for Babies!

So sorry that it has been so long since our last update! Things have been going really well! Henry has been eating great and gaining lots of weight! I noticed in the last update on January 5th that Henry weighed right at 19lbs. Over the last 3 ½ months he has gained 3 ½ lbs and now weighs 22 ½ lbs!!!! This is such an amazing accomplishment considering this type of weight gain (about 1lb per month) is usually seen between birth and 1 year. Typical weight gain between 1 and 2yrs of age is between 3 and 5lbs and Henry has accomplished this in just a few months! We are so proud of him!

Henry’s feeding therapy appointments have decreased to once a month and his PT appointments are now every other week. OT has been going well and Henry is learning how to “get messy!” Now that Henry is becoming a better eater and we are leaving the cold weather and risk of illness behind, we are moving forward with placing Henry into daycare. We are really excited about the new experiences and socialization Henry will get from daycare. His teachers are excited and the daycare is prepared to work around his dairy allergy. We’ll start the transition next week!

The only setback Henry has had is dealing with a series of ear infections. Since December, Henry is on his 4th round of antibiotics and 3rd ear infection (this time in both ears!). Unfortunately, Henry’s body does not tolerate antibiotics well, so we have struggled with finding the right antibiotic without causing too much upset. Other than antibiotics, the only prescribed medication Henry is taking is Prevacid, for reflux. He continues to get a daily multivitamin and probiotics.

It’s that time of year again! March for Babies!!!
Team Patnaud is walking again with the March of Dimes on April 24th to help improve the health of babies by preventing birth defects, premature birth and infant mortality. We hope that you will join us by walking and/or donating to this worthy cause. Please visit Team Patnaud and click “Join this Team” or “Donate to this Team”:

www.marchforbabies.org/team/t1357703

The money raised for the March for Babies will help:
- support all-important research offering preventions and solutions for babies born too soon or with birth defects,
- educate women on things they can do to increase their chances of having a healthy baby,
- provide comfort and information to families with a newborn in intensive care,
- push for newborn screening and health insurance for all pregnant women and children.

Nationally, 77 cents of every dollar supports research and programs that help moms have full-term pregnancies and healthy babies. In NC, 92 cents of every dollar supports research and programs!!!

If you’d like to read more about Henry’s journey prior to moving to our new blog, visit CarePages at https://www.carepages.com/carepages/henrysjourney.

Happy New Year!

The boys had a great Christmas! It was nice to have such a long break with all of us at home together. Stewart was really excited about Santa this year and was thrilled to pass off his wish list to Santa (of course, we snuck it back into my purse for safe keeping!). Henry was also excited to see the presents under the tree. Although he didn’t unwrap anything himself, he enjoyed playing in the boxes!

Although both boys were on antibiotics before the holiday break, we ended up having a very healthy break. I’m sure someone will pick up something by the end of this week once we are all exposed to school/work germs again. Oh well… we’ll just keep practicing lots of hand washing!

Henry has done a great job eating and gaining weight over the past few weeks. His G-tube wound has healed up nicely and now just looks like a second belly button! He is also much more comfortable moving around on his belly and can now slide down things (like the couch and the stairs) on his belly, something he wasn’t able to do before. He is now eating from a spoon! Unfortunately, it’s not so much the spoon now but what’s on it! He still will not eat any purees, but has fallen in love with rice, couscous, and peas! He has also decided that anything we are eating, he should be eating too! As a result, we must be careful to ensure that there is something on our plates that is dairy-free that he can enjoy with us! Due to his progress, we have reduced his feeding therapy appointments to every other week. He still needs to strengthen his muscles for chewing and also work on drinking from a cup.

Henry will start to receive Occupational Therapy (OT) this year to address his sensory issues. Although I feel that his sensory issues are minor, we have seen that they have inhibited him, especially with feeding. There are many things that Henry wants to eat and will try, but he gets frustrated and upset because he doesn’t want to touch/hold certain foods. Once this happens, he stops eating altogether. An Occupational Therapist will work with Henry to overcome this. We are currently working on identifying an OT.

Before the holidays, we met with a Nutritionist at UNC. She was very happy with the progress he is making and we are happy to share that he is now on a growth chart! Although he is still under the 3rd percentile for height and weight, his height to weight ratio is at the 5th percentile! Hurray! We are also happy to share that Henry has had “catch up” growth! Based on his weight from the last couple of visits, the Nutritionist calculated that he is gaining an average of 13g per day. Typical growth for a child his age is around 5g per day. “Catch up” growth for preemies is expected to be between 10g and 20g per day. She also calculated that for Henry to have “catch up” growth, he needs to consume 900-1100 calories per day. Over the holidays, his average daily calorie consumption was 980 calories. Go, Henry! He now weighs 19lb, 0.5oz!!!

Henry seems to be tolerating his medications well and they seem to be dosed properly. He is taking Prevacid for reflux, Pulmicort for Eosinophilic Gastritis, and Periactin as an appetite stimulant. He is also taking a Probiotic supplement and Digestive Enzymes for digestive health and a daily multivitamin. Although the Periactin is an appetite stimulant, the Pulmicort (which is a steroid) also has a side effect of increased hunger. We’re not sure if one or both are helping, but we can definitely see that Henry has a bigger appetite than he used to. Henry’s feeding therapist, Krisi, asked me today if it was ok to use Henry’s case as an example when giving seminar presentations. She said that Henry is a textbook example of a child who requires the appropriate medications for GI comfort in order to properly eat. Unfortunately, many feeding therapists do not work in a hospital setting and are not able to communicate freely with the medical staff concerning GI needs. In addition, many feeding therapists and doctors have the belief that feeding aversions are primarily behavioral. I strongly believe that feeding aversions are due to an underlying physiological discomfort. Unfortunately, due to common beliefs, many children continue with behavioral feeding issues once their conditions are addressed because identifying the cause for discomfort has not been a priority (or a realized need). I am thrilled that Krisi would like to use Henry’s case to help educate medical staff and correct the common belief!

Henry has also done well with his physical development. He only has one milestone left to reach - jumping! His Physical Therapist said that once he learns how to jump, we can reduce his PT appointments to every other week! Continuation of PT after this last milestone will focus on building muscle strength as Henry still has low muscle tone.

Of course, there always seems to be another bump in the road to round things out! Before the holidays, we discovered that Henry has a hernia. We meet with the GI surgeon later this month to check it out and determine our path forward. We have heard that sometimes the medical team will decide to wait and repair hernias in a couple of years. We’ll see… I wouldn’t be surprised if it is decided to repair the hernia later this year, and possibly do a follow-up endoscopy to check his Eosinophilic Gastritis at the same time.

During Stewart’s school trackout in December, we enrolled him in an indoor soccer camp. This was the first camp Stewart has been to that wasn’t associated with the YMCA. Although he was a bit sore, he loved it! Since Stewart loves soccer, we looked into enrolling him for the winter season. The coaches were very impressed with his skills and invited him to be on the Select 6-7yr Team! This was a great surprise, as you have to be invited to play on the Select Team! We are very excited and are looking forward to his first game this Saturday!

Results and what they mean...

We had a busy day yesterday and today! Yesterday, Henry had an ultrasound to check his pancreas in response to the pancreatic nodule observed during the endoscopy. Everything looked good and there are no concerns.

Today, in addition to feeding therapy, we had an appointment with the allergist. The allergist was wonderful and actually has a very similar story to ours… her daughter was born at 34 weeks, had cows milk and soy allergies, and feeding difficulties. It was nice to talk to someone in the medical field who understands and has experienced some of what we are going through. The allergist told us Henry has Eosinophilic Gastritis. Eosinophils are white blood cells that are typically produced in response to a parasitic infection. Eosinophils gather in the area of the infection and release toxic granules that destroy parasites. When produced in response to an allergy, the granules can be damaging to the lining of the esophagus, stomach, and/or intestines causing tissue damage and ulcers. Fortunately, Henry’s esophagus, stomach, and upper intestines appeared healthy and normal during the endoscopy, indicating that the eosinophils have not caused any significant damage.

The allergist told us Eosinophilic Gastrointestinal Disorders (EGID) are somewhat “new” and that there is a lot of research occurring as to why and when they occur. There is not a test to identify what causes the body to produce eosinophils. Doctors rely on allergy tests, although allergy testing identifies substances that cause a histamine reaction, and not necessarily an eosinophilic reaction. Since Henry has a histamine response to cows milk allergy it is thought that it is also causing his eosinophilic response.

We also had Henry tested for seasonal allergies, since what you breath can also be ingested. The testing showed that Henry has an allergy to dogs. Fortunately, the reaction was not significant, so we will try to reduce his exposure.

To treat Henry’s EGID, we will give him Pulmicort, a steroid, for 6-8 weeks. The “good” news is that exposure to dogs and/or minor amounts of milk proteins will not aggravate his EGID during the treatment. There were a few high calorie foods we were giving him where milk proteins were low on the ingredient list. The allergist told us we could continue giving these to “buy time” to help put weight on while the Pulmicort eliminates the eosinophils.

We are hoping that the Pulmicort will help Henry feel more comfortable and make him want to eat more. In a few days, we will start trying Periactin, which is an appetite stimulant. We are hoping that with the Prevacid, Pulmicort, and Periactin that Henry really starts eating well and gaining good weight. After the treatment with Pulmicort, we will talk with the doctors to determine if another endoscopy is warranted. The only way to confirm the elimination of eosinophils from Henry’s stomach is to perform an endoscopy.

Happy Thanksgiving! Two steps back, one step forward...

What a rough week and a half! There’s so much to update, so I’ll do it in pieces!

Endoscopy
The Thursday before Thanksgiving, Henry had his endoscopy. The procedure and hospital visit went well. We checked in at 6:30am, he went under at 8am, and was in recovery at 9am. We left the hospital by 10:30am! The doctor sat down with us and explained what she saw and gave us some great pictures detailing Henry’s esophagus, stomach, and the beginning of the intestines (duodenum). She said everything looked good. She did observe a small pancreatic nodule at the base of the stomach going into the intestines. She said that this is a common occurrence and doesn’t expect that it is a problem for Henry; however, they will perform an ultrasound of his pancreas tomorrow just to make sure.

During the endoscopy, they took small “pinch” biopsies. The results of the pinch biopsies indicated high levels of eosinophils in the stomach. As many of you may remember, eosinophils are a type of white blood cell indicative of an allergy. We will learn more about what this means when we meet with the Allergist on Tuesday this week.

There were many blood tests performed following Henry’s endoscopy. Of the results we have, everything is ok, but we are still waiting for some results.

G-Tube
The good news is that there is no more G-tube!! But this comes with quite the story! During the endoscopy, Henry’s bard-style G-tube was replaced with a MIC-KEY G-tube. In general, a G-tube consists of a valve (to open the tube for feeding), the stem (which goes into the stomach), and a ball/balloon on the inside of the stomach to keep the G-tube in place. A bard is a more “permanent” tube with a hard solid ball on the inside of the stomach. A MIC-KEY is a “removable” tube that has a balloon on the inside of the stomach that is filled with water and can be easily deflated. We had decided to replace the tube because we had experienced some excessive leakage (mostly when Henry had a cold) and because he had likely outgrown the size of the tube.

We expected to experience some minor leakage the first day or so after it was replaced due to the damage caused from removing the solid bard. However, last Saturday we began to experience excessive leaking from the tube-site. On Sunday, it was so bad that we were having a hard time keeping his fluids in. Given that Henry’s diet consists of 75% formula, this was a real concern. We called UNC Sunday afternoon and were told we could go in for an all-night ER stay or show up at the clinic Monday morning. Since we didn’t feel that Henry was dehydrated, we waited until Monday morning. UNC was great… we didn’t have an appointment, yet never got the chance to sit down before they called us back! The GI nurse practitioner, Lynn, was great, commenting that she was glad “we know Henry so well” and that they “recognize that the parents are the experts.” Wow! I think hell would have to freeze over before Duke would ever utter those words, and even then it would be just a whisper!

Lynn was a great advocate, and after talking with her about Henry’s history, she tried to get the other medical team members to agree to remove the tube. Unfortunately, no one felt that was the best option at the time and that the tube should stay in “just in case,” given the cold and flu season. So, Lynn took out the tube, waited 30 minutes to allow the site to “close up” some on its own, and then replaced the tube. Unfortunately, this attempt did not result in a “better fit” and we continued to experience leakage. We repeated this at home on Tuesday, and again on Thursday, the last time leaving the tube out for 1 hour. Unfortunately, there was little change. At this point, Henry had lost a half pound and his feeding schedule/habits had been completely disrupted since we were feeding him constantly throughout the day to combat what was leaking out of him. We were changing his clothes often (6 or more times!) as he would end up completely soaked several times throughout the day. This also resulted in sleep disruption for all of us since we had to change his clothes/sheets during the night as well. On Friday, we had reached our limit… we called Nannette at home. She was great and was not upset at all that we had called her at home over a holiday! She helped us get in touch with the GI surgical resident and after discussions with both, we agreed at that point that removing the tube was the best option.

On Friday, at 11am, we removed the tube at home and waited! They told us it should take at least 8 hours to close on its own. It’s been almost 2 ½ days since we removed the tube and the site hasn’t quite completely closed up. The leakage is very minimal and we are covering his site w/ some gauze. Henry actually stayed in the same clothes all day today! A first in over a week! We will touch base with Nannette in the morning… I suspect that they will have us come in and possibly place a suture to help the site completely heal.

Although this is a victory, we still have a long way to go! Although Henry consumes enough calories on his own in a day, most of those calories are coming from his formula and he gets about 4 bottles a day. Most toddlers his age are no longer taking bottles. Henry needs to learn to eat more solid foods in a sitting, so that he is actually eating a normal size “meal.” We are still working on spoon feeding, which unfortunately hasn’t occurred in over a week. We will also need to start working more aggressively with sippy cups and open cup drinking.


To round out our week (as “issues” never seem to happen when it’s convenient!), Stewart’s last day of school was Wednesday. He is now tracked out until January! Stewart also lost his first tooth last night! He was quite pleased with the Tooth Fairy’s gift! We had Thanksgiving at my mom’s and got to see some family. Now it’s time to get ready for Christmas! Whew!

Happy Halloween!

Henry has been doing very well and is now up to 17lb, 6oz! The Prevacid appears to be helping Henry quite a bit and we are very excited that something so “simple” has made such a significant improvement. The team at UNC has been great! Our primary contact, Nannette, has been wonderful and has called us many times in the evening to check in, get updates, or just provide us with some information on upcoming appointments. I am so impressed with her dedication… it is very clear that the well being of the kids she takes care of is very important to her.

Just some quick updates… Henry’s endoscopy and G-tube replacement are scheduled to occur in 2 weeks. We are no longer using hemp milk and are sticking with the soy for now since Henry seems to respond best to it. UNC will check thyroid function, among other things, in 2 weeks. Thyroid function is one area where soy can have a negative impact.

Feeding therapy is progressing well. Henry has been “practicing” taking bites with a dry spoon for a couple of weeks now. We call it “Spoon Play!” He is doing well but still has some room for improvement. Hopefully, we will start introducing a “dipped” spoon soon! Physical therapy is going well, also. Henry is practicing walking on uneven surfaces, climbing stairs, and using both sides of his body equally. The gym where the therapist works is a great playground for him… foam pit, trampolines, and all! Developmental therapy is also going well, with the focus on fine motor skills. Henry has discovered “wheels” and his favorite new pastime is to lay flat on his tummy while pushing his cars back and forth on the floor! It’s really cute!

It’s that time of the year again! RSV, flu, and now H1N1 season!!! Although Henry does not qualify to receive Synagis, for RSV prevention, this year, it is still a significant threat. Henry will be getting the flu shot this year as soon as his Pediatrician gets some in! Please remember, getting these “vaccinations” does not PREVENT the flu, it only reduces the risk and/or severity. For Henry, getting sick with anything, even the common cold, has a significant impact on his health and growth. Who wants to eat when they’re sick? Although Henry’s G-tube can be used when he gets sick, we are still not able to give him the calories he needs because his body is less tolerant of those needed calories when he is recovering from an illness. This means he is more likely to vomit, have aggravated reflux, and excess air in his tummy, which only results in more vomit, less sleep, and irritability. All these things impact how well he grows. So, please don’t take offense if we seem to be isolated to our own home this winter season!

The boys had a great Halloween! Stewart dressed up as the Transformers hero Optimus Prime and Henry was a “bad to the bone” skeleton! We had a great neighborhood gathering before the trick-or-treaters set out and Stewart came home with quite the loot!

Welcome to Henry's new blog! We decided to move here so we could have more flexibility in posting pictures, videos, and links as well as better reliability. It may take me a while to learn all the bells and whistles, so this site will continue to evolve!

The last update on Carepages was from September 21st, but I don't think most people received the notification for the update. If you'd like to read the last update or just read more about Henry's first 19 months, visit www.carepages.com/carepages/henrysjourney.

For a recap, we had a very long but productive appointment with UNC on September 16th with a feeding specialist, a nutritionist, and GI nurse practitioner. As I mentioned in the Sept 21st update, we realized that when the "abnormal" has become a part of life's "normal" routine, it becomes difficult to realize how "abnormal" things really are!

UNC's first goal is to make Henry comfortable and eliminate any GI discomfort he may have. We switched his reflux medication from Prilosec to Prevacid. It is already apparent that the switch was a good one as we can tell that Henry is much more comfortable, has had less reflux, less vomiting, is happier, and seems to want to eat more. I'm getting really excited about the changes we've seen since switching to Prevacid, but I'm afraid to get my hopes up as they've only been torn down in the past by just another bump in the road.

We also tried using Erythromycin, which is an antibiotic but when given in a dosage smaller than that necessary to treat infection has been shown to increase gastric motility. As a result, Erythromycin should help empty the stomach quicker. Henry did not react well to the medication, so we had to discontinue its use.

We have an appointment set up in November to replace Henry's G-tube with a MIC-Key button. MIC-KEY buttons are much more common than the "bard" type G-tube Henry currently has. Since UNC sedates kids for this replacement (its not considered surgery), they will also perform an endoscopy to check for any damage. There will also be blood drawn to check various labs and for genetic testing. Although there will be many procedures performed at one time during this appointment, we are grateful that UNC has been able to work among specialists to limit Henry's visits and "doctor anxiety."

Last week we started seeing Krisi for feeding therapy at UNC. Since Henry associates hospitals and doctor visits with discomfort, the first appointment was a bit rough, but this week's appointment was much more relaxed! We've learned a couple of techniques to work with Henry and hope to see progress over the next few weeks. We are specifically focusing on spoon feeding and drinking from a cup.

In addition to changing medications to make Henry more comfortable, we are also reviewing his diet. Henry currently drinks a high calorie soy pediatric drink. There have been a lot of recent controversies over the use of soy and the negative impact it has on calcium absorption and thyroid function, especially in children. For a while, I was making my own almond milk and adding coconut oil to it to help Henry get the nutritional benefits of both with the additional calories. After meeting with the nutritionist we decided to try Hemp milk, also adding coconut oil for nutritional benefits and calories. He likes it, but we gave it a break due to some loose bowels, but we're not sure that was the culprit, so we will try again this week.

Two new corn mazes opened up within 5 miles of our house this year! We visited both of them over the past couple of weeks and the kids had a blast! The "corn box" was a big hit at one corn maze and the other had a great hay ride!

Stewart's 6th birthday was yesterday! Happy Birthday Stewart! We had a great time with some

family and friends and now we're gearing up for the "all boys" party at Frankie's Fun House tomorrow!